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1. No Money, No Honey

One of the most traditional and well-known Chinese door games, this challenge requires the groom to prove his dedication to the bride by bribing the bridesmaids with red envelopes. The bridesmaids hold the bride hostage and will only “release” her once they are satisfied with the groom’s offerings. This game can be played as part of the wedding processional or at the banquet entrance. Be sure to have plenty of red envelopes ready!

2. Q&A Tests

A fun and engaging game for a Chinese tea ceremony, this challenge tests the groom’s knowledge of his bride and their relationship. A bridesmaid or family member asks him a series of questions, and he must answer correctly to pass. Incorrect answers may result in fun or embarrassing penalties, ensuring laughter and entertainment for all.

3. Declaration of Love

To prove his devotion, the groom must make a grand declaration of love. This could be a heartfelt vow, a poem, or even an original song. The goal is to win over the bride and her bridal party with an over-the-top and passionate performance. Looking for inspiration? Ancient Chinese love proverbs or shared relationship memories make great additions!

4. Sweet Serenade

Even if the groom isn’t a singer, he must belt out a sappy, romantic love song loud enough for the bride to hear. The cheesier, the better! The bridal party may challenge him to sing louder or add dramatic gestures for an extra laugh. Bonus points if he can come up with original lyrics or stay in tune.

5. The Four Flavors of Life

Marriage is full of sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy moments. To prepare the groom for these realities, he must taste various foods and drinks that represent each of these flavors. Common choices include candies (sweet), vinegar (sour), Chinese medicine (bitter), and chili peppers (spicy). A blind taste test ensures hilarious reactions and memorable moments.

6. Pass the Seaweed

A classic and comical wedding reception game! The groom and groomsmen stand in a line, passing a sheet of seaweed from one person to the next using only their mouths. If the seaweed drops, they must start over. To increase the difficulty, the sheet can be cut into smaller pieces. This game is guaranteed to elicit laughter and excitement.

7. No Pain, No Gain

To give the groom a taste of the challenges women endure, this game tests his pain tolerance. The groom sits in a chair while the bridesmaids take turns waxing his legs. To win, he must endure the waxing from each bridesmaid. This playful challenge always results in plenty of laughs and camaraderie among the wedding party.

8. Ice Bucket Challenge

A test of endurance and skill, this challenge requires the groom and his groomsmen to place their feet in a bucket of ice water. Inside the bucket are mahjong tiles that they must retrieve using only their toes. The icy water adds an extra challenge, making for an entertaining and competitive game.

These eight Chinese wedding door games, ranging from funny to traditional, will energize your wedding party and create lasting memories. While playful, chuangmen games are deeply rooted in Chinese wedding tradition. What better way to celebrate love and family than by honoring these cherished customs?